It’s pretty common knowledge that Jesus didn’t think, say, or do things the way most people did during his lifetime. This included the way Jesus formed his band of disciples. Most religious leaders during Jesus’ lifetime welcomed whoever desired to follow them.
Jesus chose his disciples.
This means Jesus chose men who would fight, argue, mess up, abandon him, and even betray him. Jesus experienced all of this and, yet, Jesus chose them just like he chooses us, daily.